Photographed by Jessica Garcia.
I get it. You’ve been extremely patient in your quest for love, taking notes on what turns you on or off in a partner, and fantasizing about all the ways you’d like to be stimulated — mentally, emotionally,
physically. In the beginning of 2020, we were immersed in
. This asked us to slow down and to be more strategic. But when Venus moved into Pisces this month, we began to see that patience pay off.
The eighth planet also has a tendency to make us fall victim to others’ facades and illusions, though. Under Neptune’s influence, all boundaries are dissolved, and that could leave us open to manipulation and broken promises from others — or to deceitful behaviour ourselves.
Perhaps you’ve been
so good, your partner (or partners) genuinely believes they’ve been rocking your world. Or maybe you’re the type to
, but when it’s time to hit the sheets, you freeze up. While Venus rests in Pisces, honesty is the best policy. There’s the potential for us to have some of our most passionate, toe-curling sex ever — but that will only come from open communication.
its emotional sensitivities, which in turn makes for great heart-to-hearts. Now more than ever, you might
before jumping your partner’s bones. You may want to spend more time admiring each other’s bodies or teasing each other — even tracing your partner’s tattoos or stretch marks with your tongue. Venus in Pisces wants you to honour the beauty in all things.
Several recent transits have played a role in making this time such a fortuitous one for love. When
at the end of last year, we began to open up to meeting new people and started scouting potential flings. We learned the importance of accepting others for who they say they are, and honouring one another’s eccentricity.
on January 20, the energy in the bedroom got a little more risqué. Aquarians are typically known for their uniqueness, their spunky taste, and rebellious behaviour. Nothing with an Aquarius is normal or boring. Combining Aquarian and Pisces’ energy opens up new possibilities. This is the time to experiment with kinks, explore
, or maybe even
, if you’re into it.
The need for forthrightness extends inward, too. Tune into what your body craves at all times. In the mood for an orgasm mid-day? Go for it!
Right now, Mars, the planet of action, lust, and aggression, rests in Sagittarius. This means your impulsivity and horniness is through the roof.
wants you to acknowledge your inner freak and place her on full display. Yes, this includes sex in public — if you’re sneaky enough. But even a
before work can give you the energy boost you need.
Venus in Pisces grants us all the opportunity for our fantasies to manifest into the material world. That doesn’t necessarily mean the object of my daydreams (Michael B. Jordan) will appear to sweep me away (
). But during this time, I can create the same
I envision having with him.
all rest in the sign of Capricorn, we must face previous struggles with a fresh mindset. For example, some of us may have chosen to withdraw from sexual activity out of fear of contracting STIs or making the wrong soul-ties. Both are valid reasons to take a break. But it’s important to recognize when we are limiting and punishing ourselves. Everyone deserves a chance to begin again.
Venus in Pisces asks us to keep it real with our intentions, trust our intuition, and have patience when exploring our new reality. Let your heart do the talking, but
that you may be disguised under your rose-coloured glasses. Still, don’t let your mind play tricks on you. No one knows what you desire more than you do. It’s time to own it.